“Anything that annoys you is teaching you patience. Anyone who abandons you is teaching you how to stand up on your own two feet. Anything that angers you is teaching you forgiveness & compassion . Anything that has power over you is teaching you how to take your power back. Anything you hate is teaching you unconditional love. Anything you fear is teaching you courage to overcome your fear. Anything you can’t control is teaching you how to let go.”
School will teach you morals, values, humankind, will make you expert in your field . But the real lesson we learn in the school of life.
These are the few lessons that life teaches you:-
1. Helps to make you independent¬†
”To find yourself, think for yourself ”:- Socrates¬†
We learn that we have to do all our stuff alone . Our parents , siblings aren’t there to help us. We have to stand on our own & take care of ourselves. Our parents & teachers won’t guide us anymore. It is just us & the world. We ourself is best for us .
2. Time is the most powerful .
“Either you run the time or time runs you “
Life teaches us we still don’t have control over time no matter how good we are in time management. If it’s not the right time you will not get the things & will only end up messing up the things.
” Patience is bitter, but it’s fruit is sweet” :- Aristotle¬†
In the real world , everyone is going to test your patience ¬†.Unlike your home you just can’t shout at everyone in real world. Life teaches you how to be calm and patient . How to control the fire of anger. Life teaches you how not to react on each and every thing.
“Failures are the pillar of success “
There are only 1% fortunate people who gets success in one time. Rest 99% face failures many time. Failure are the part of success.Life teaches us that we don’t need to be upset about our failures as failures makes success more tastier.
5. Our heart will get attach to wrong people
“Maturity , one discovers , has everything to do with the acceptance of ‘not knowing ” :- Mark z. Danielewske¬†
Once in life everyone gets attach to wrong people either in the form of life partner or friends. These wrong people teaches us many things. Most important lesson they teach us is that we don’t become the wrong person for anyone.
6. Lesson of fear & pain
No one is immune from these two emotions. Life teaches you how to overcome your fear , how to make fear your courage. How to work in pain, how to make pain your companion, how to give best results in pain.
7. Comparison not allowed¬†
“Everyone is unique as their thumbprint”
Comparing yourself with others will make you down your inherent beauty . Let them do their work, wish them luck & focus on your ambitions. Don’t let jealousy , frustration ruin everything. Trust your talent.
8. Control your emotions¬†
“Our emotions set us apart from animals”
Decisions made under extreme emotions may work aagainst us. When we master our emotions we can decipher what’s really in our best interest.
9. Love yourself¬†
“Worry about loving yourself, instead of loving the idea of other people loving you “
Life teaches us that we have to become the first faithful friend , guide , partner if ourself. Apart from us no one is going to stand for us.
“Lessons in life
Will be repeated
UNTIL they are learned”